15yr old boy 28 yr old woman
same old story except the 15yr old is mine and the 28yr old is a gal down the road ,,,What a mess ,,my wife has not found out yet but I will have to tell her tonight ,,on top of it all the womans ex-husband came to the house to tell me about it,,then his pastor from the local were better than you church came by to pray about it,,after hearing the preacher talking bad about my son I asked him to leave ,,he refused ,,,I made him leave in a not real nice way,,I did not hit him but I let him know I would if needed ,,then I am outside putting disc brakes on the front of my van,,the preachers son flys up my driveway in his truck,,runs toward me and before he could hit me I reached inside my tool box and smacked him upside the head with a 18" pipe wrench,I put him in his truck and he leaves,,10 minutes later a city police shows up ,,I live 5.5 miles from town,,he tells me he is going to arrest me ,,about this time my wife comes home,,I tell her to call the sheriff's office and I tell the town cop I am not going with him,,while my wife is on the phone with them the city cop pulls his sidearm and threatens me if I do not go with him,,I just sit down in the yard ,,my wife has her cell phone on speaker and the whole thing is recorded by the sheriffs office,,,deputy gets there,,wants to know whats up,,I tell him the story about the preacher and his son,,he asked the city cop why he is there and who filled the complaint,,,find out there is no complaint filed,,city cop also goes to the same we are better than you church,,,I go with the deputy but it is not to be arrested,,it is to file a complaint against them all including the city cop who threatened me with his sidearm and me unarmed . and yes the sheriffs office has it all on tape..city cop arrested,,preachers son arrested,,,I still have to explain to my wife what started it all....ANYONE HAVE A GOOD WAY TO TELL A WOMAN HER 15YR OLD HAS BEEN BANGING THE OLDER WOMAN DOWN THE ROAD [V]
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quote:the women wasn't "taking advantage" of him really.
WHAT? How can a 28 year-old, supposed mature, woman be fooling around with an inmature 15 year-old boy and NOT be taking advantage of him? She is old enough, and should have enough sense, to realize the difference between right and wrong. As a 15 year-old, I would have nailed anything that came my way and offered. That is just a hormone filled young male. But a 28 year-old woman knows better! Heck yes, she was taking advantage of him!0 -
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quote:Originally posted by iluvguns
quote:the women wasn't "taking advantage" of him really.
WHAT? How can a 28 year-old, supposed mature, woman be fooling around with an inmature 15 year-old boy and NOT be taking advantage of him? She is old enough, and should have enough sense, to realize the difference between right and wrong. As a 15 year-old, I would have nailed anything that came my way and offered. That is just a hormone filled young male. But a 28 year-old woman knows better! Heck yes, she was taking advantage of him!
Negative, he sure as hell knew what he was doing at that age. Trust me from personal experience a guy that age knows what he's doing when he nails a older women.0 -
I know you just wanted this to go away... But IMO that city cop needs to be prosecuted. Did you drop the charges against the preacher's son too? 0 -
quote:Negative, he sure as hell knew what he was doing at that age.
Bullsnot. You might have known the "motions", but that is about it. Like I said, I was 15 once, and like most 15 year-olds, I would have screwed anything I had the chance to. But the woman was 28. She should have known better. She should have known it was wrong. She should have said, "Nope. Come back when you're 18." Yep, she took advantage of him.
Hope it all works out sharpshooter039.0 -
Divorced and still married in the eyes of the church?
I thought only the Catholic Church observed that tenet.0 -
Sounds like you are handling the situation well...Any boy in his right (or wrong)[;)] mind would have done the same thing. I certainly would not be going after the woman...there's too many other folks to go after in this situation.
This almost sounds like something out of a soap opera...0 -
All I can say is WOW! 0 -
"This too shall come to pass"[:)]
Is a 18 inch pipe wrench the legal size to defend yourself with?
Good Show
NOW press charges against the female before child protective services stops to say Hi.0 -
quote:Originally posted by iluvguns
quote:Negative, he sure as hell knew what he was doing at that age.
Bullsnot. You might have known the "motions", but that is about it. Like I said, I was 15 once, and like most 15 year-olds, I would have screwed anything I had the chance to. But the woman was 28. She should have known better. She should have known it was wrong. She should have said, "Nope. Come back when you're 18." Yep, she took advantage of him.
Hope it all works out sharpshooter039.
Ok say we have a collectable gun, but I don't know its worth. Let's say its worth 1000. I look at it as a old rusty gun that is in bad condition. You being the co-owner of it and know its real worth offer me 100 for it, and I think its a good deal since its just a rusty old gun.
That is taking advantage.
I'll agree though, she should of known better, but it's not like his son was taken advantage of and didn't know better either.0 -
Hope it works out for you and yours sharpshooter.
When I was 15 my MOM was 29.[:0]
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Sharps
I feel for you man. Prayers sent.
Dean0 -
Just for the sake of argument, how many of you with 15 year old daughters feel like offering them up to some older guys ? Is 28 too old ? What about 48 ? Is one adult having sex with your minor child OK while another isn't ?
What if your 15 year old son was having an affair with the 28 year old GUY down the street ?
Think mom or dad would give them a wink and a nod ?
Best of luck to you Sharpshooter0 -
There are differences between young men and mature women.
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so what exactly was the 15yr doing with the 28 yr old ? you said earlier the husband caught them "kissing" ? well kissing a minor isnt illegal, actually. i dont think i would trust the account of a husband or ex husband either. i think cooler heads should have prevailed and let some FACT gathering take place before people flew off the handle.
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Sounds to me like the kid has what it takes, unless the female was a real scag.
They are both almost in their prime. In a couple or three more years, she will be at her peak, and he will, too.
Actually, if you looked at the drive of both of them, this is probably a very natural thing to happen.0 -
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Hope it works out for you and yours sharpshooter.
When I was 15 my MOM was 29.[:0]
Ben
Your mom was 14 when you were born?0 -
quote:Originally posted by pistoljim
quote:Originally posted by jbw1776
Hope it works out for you and yours sharpshooter.
When I was 15 my MOM was 29.[:0]
Ben
Your mom was 14 when you were born?
Woops, bad math.[B)] She was 15.
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First off, you got a bunch of busy body rednecks around you. Tell the preacher, his son, the city cop, and the ex-husband to kiss your ass.
Leting the cop resign means he can come back to work any time he wants.
A 15 year old male and a 26 year old women are just about at the most fertile and randy point in human lives. Nothing extraordinary there. You don't have to encourage the relationship, but it's nothing to flip out over. Both are probably having a really good time.
To hell with what those idiots think. When they start paying your bills, they let them dictate how to run you or your boys life.0 -
Wow. You hit him in the head with an 18" wrench and he drove away? He is lucky he is not dead. I did the same thing that your son did when I was 14 and my mom found out. Never told my dad, but I layed off the 24 year old neighbor girl, and quit mowing her grass (so to speak). I think id still be bangin her if I wouldnt have got caught. She's the one with the loose screw, not your son. Hang in there. 0 -
If it was more than kissing, I hope that the boy was shooting blanks.
That's an 18 year sentence that he/you/wife doesn't need.
Prayers for a happy outcome.0 -
WOW!sounds like a scene right out of a movie.Only in the movie the preacher would have more friends with him and there would have been a lynching.Then the revenge would start and give guns another bad rap.You handled it right.Goe easy on your son,we envy him. p.s.wrench would be a treasured givaway(seen more action than my guns,thankfully) 0 -
Be very careful how you react to this type of situation. A conviction of domestic violence will prevent you from ever owning or having in your home any firearms. 0 -
quote:Originally posted by sharpshooter039
same old story except the 15yr old is mine and the 28yr old is a gal down the road ,,,What a mess ,,my wife has not found out yet but I will have to tell her tonight ,,on top of it all the womans ex-husband came to the house to tell me about it,,then his pastor from the local were better than you church came by to pray about it,,after hearing the preacher talking bad about my son I asked him to leave ,,he refused ,,,I made him leave in a not real nice way,,I did not hit him but I let him know I would if needed ,,then I am outside putting disc brakes on the front of my van,,the preachers son flys up my driveway in his truck,,runs toward me and before he could hit me I reached inside my tool box and smacked him upside the head with a 18" pipe wrench,I put him in his truck and he leaves,,10 minutes later a city police shows up ,,I live 5.5 miles from town,,he tells me he is going to arrest me ,,about this time my wife comes home,,I tell her to call the sheriff's office and I tell the town cop I am not going with him,,while my wife is on the phone with them the city cop pulls his sidearm and threatens me if I do not go with him,,I just sit down in the yard ,,my wife has her cell phone on speaker and the whole thing is recorded by the sheriffs office,,,deputy gets there,,wants to know whats up,,I tell him the story about the preacher and his son,,he asked the city cop why he is there and who filled the complaint,,,find out there is no complaint filed,,city cop also goes to the same we are better than you church,,,I go with the deputy but it is not to be arrested,,it is to file a complaint against them all including the city cop who threatened me with his sidearm and me unarmed . and yes the sheriffs office has it all on tape..city cop arrested,,preachers son arrested,,,I still have to explain to my wife what started it all....ANYONE HAVE A GOOD WAY TO TELL A WOMAN HER 15YR OLD HAS BEEN BANGING THE OLDER WOMAN DOWN THE ROAD [V]
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well went down this morning and talked to the girl,carried my son so I could get them together ,pretty good looking little girl,looks alot like Demi Moore ,seems my son started going down this winter to help her with firewood and such and one thing lead to another ,her dad showed up ,the same preacher had went to his house too ,,, they both said they had been going at it for awhile now but they swear its over ,in her defence she is comming out of a very abusive marriage and just needed someone,her ex is a nut and used to to some very bad things to her,,I know this to be true because that was the grounds for the divorce and her father showed me the papers,,,on my sons part I cant ride him too hard ,as I have said in here before when I was in the 11th grade I had an affair with my french teacher "son does not know this",,,If anyone was taking advantage it was my son,,he knew what was happening with the girl and started going down there hoping to get laid plus he was lieing to his mother about where he had been going,,,She works at the local health unit and both of them swear they always used a condom plus she is on the pill ...Now the only thing to deal with is her crazy ex and his church,,I have warned my son to stay away from these people and showed him the news where the man just shot his wifes teen lover ,,,we will see ,,,The preacher told the girls father he was telling the whole church today so I dont know where this is going to go on that side,,I am not going after the girl but when it goes all over town the law might decide to get involved...What is a TRUE LIFE APOSTOLIC church,,it seams all these people are nuts,,the girls husband joined this church after they were married,,seams they have some strong beliefs about a husbands rights to his wife and they believe once married always married..
Now dont believe my son is getting out of this light,,,,he has to deal with his MOTHER and he would rather fight a bear than have to face the wrath of mom0 -
quote:Originally posted by sharpshooter039
well went down this morning and talked to the girl,carried my son so I could get them together ,pretty good looking little girl,looks alot like Demi Moore ,seems my son started going down this winter to help her with firewood and such and one thing lead to another ,her dad showed up ,the same preacher had went to his house too ,,, they both said they had been going at it for awhile now but they swear its over ,in her defence she is comming out of a very abusive marriage and just needed someone,her ex is a nut and used to to some very bad things to her,,I know this to be true because that was the grounds for the divorce and her father showed me the papers,,,on my sons part I cant ride him too hard ,as I have said in here before when I was in the 11th grade I had an affair with my french teacher "son does not know this",,,If anyone was taking advantage it was my son,,he knew what was happening with the girl and started going down there hoping to get laid plus he was lieing to his mother about where he had been going,,,She works at the local health unit and both of them swear they always used a condom plus she is on the pill ...Now the only thing to deal with is her crazy ex and his church,,I have warned my son to stay away from these people and showed him the news where the man just shot his wifes teen lover ,,,we will see ,,,The preacher told the girls father he was telling the whole church today so I dont know where this is going to go on that side,,I am not going after the girl but when it goes all over town the law might decide to get involved...What is a TRUE LIFE APOSTOLIC church,,it seams all these people are nuts,,the girls husband joined this church after they were married,,seams they have some strong beliefs about a husbands rights to his wife and they believe once married always married..
Alot of preachers (you pick the relgion) are certifiably nuts. But, some of followers can see right thru them. Maybe he (preacher) can knit a scarlet A for her shirt.0 -
Sounds to me like there's a bunch of so-called Christians who are a lot more dangerous than a lonely and somewhat confused woman. She and your son were wrong. They both were aware. Maybe they both learned that there are consequences for our actions.
As to the church members... Sometimes in our zeal to be holy, we become anything but. They might gently be reminded that Christ didn't condemn the sinner, he condemned the sin. It might also be pointed out that no man is without sin. I find that policing my own weaknesses and sins is a full time job and that I really don't have time to force others into line.
But I'm not here to preach. This is Easter and no matter what one believes, the fact remains that a man by the name of Jesus willingly died for you and me. Considering what He endured, everything else pales in comparison.
I wish you well.0 -
....ANYONE HAVE A GOOD WAY TO TELL A WOMAN HER 15YR OLD HAS BEEN BANGING THE OLDER WOMAN DOWN THE ROAD
Yes. Your son tells his mother. Let him sweat and look his mother in the eyes. You are present and don't let him do a spin. There is NO way you are going to be able to easily tell her so do your son some good by making him face up.
Make a appointment to have him checked for STDs.0 -
Step 1) Call Dr. Phil or another such show.
Step 2) Get your 15 minutes of fame.0 -
quote:Originally posted by steeltoe1978
Step 1) Call Dr. Phil or another such show.
Step 2) Get your 15 minutes of fame.
His 15 min of fame can end up putting this girl behind bars for 15 years.0
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