Now she's coming back.
She called and is coming back. I told her that I am DONE with the stupid arguing and smart alec behaviors. She agreed. That was my main concern. Maybe god is working his magic.
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quote:Originally posted by kristov
quote:Originally posted by ECC
Cubs...get some Christian councelling...marriage is worth working for and it really helps...in more ways than one! I pray that you guys have many, many, many years of happiness together! I'm glad to hear she's coming home.
Put some fear into the young woman: Suggest that both of you go for Islamic marriage counseling.
Yes, tell her you want Sharia Law.
Man, you are really evil.0 -
Not sure how long you've been married but Just get threw the first 2 and your good to go. research has proved the first 2 yrs are the hardest. I have to agree with it. 0 -
Cubs,
Glad to hear the good news. I typed out a long response to your post last night then POOF. Anyway, sometimes situations like this in life help us reevaluate our priorities. A similar situation to yours in my past helped me open my eyes. I hope its all smooth sailing from here my friend.[;)]
quote:Originally posted by cubslovers
She called and is coming back. I told her that I am DONE with the stupid arguing and smart alec behaviors. She agreed. That was my main concern. Maybe god is working his magic.0 -
bills of sale must also be backdated so as not to be transparent should the worst happen. I have talked to lawyers about this.....
BTW, we are getting ready for our SECOND round of marriage counseling. It WORKS ONLY IF BOTH PARTIES are 100% UP FRONT AND HONEST. Don't hold it back,..lay it out on the table and let the counselor interupt when necessary.
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quote:Originally posted by bang250
Not sure how long you've been married but Just get threw the first 2 and your good to go. research has proved the first 2 yrs are the hardest. I have to agree with it.
Amen to that! Marriage is never easy but nothing worth doing ever is.
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quote:nothing worth doing ever is.
Bull! That is one of those toss off phrases with no meaning whatever. consider beer.0 -
quote:Originally posted by He Dog
quote:nothing worth doing ever is.
Bull! That is one of those toss off phrases with no meaning whatever. consider beer.
Huh? 'spain further, please.0 -
quote:Originally posted by He Dog
quote:nothing worth doing ever is.
Bull! That is one of those toss off phrases with no meaning whatever. consider beer.
That is one of those toss off phrases with no meaning whatever.[;)]
Forgive the generalization...my marriage, kids, job, and hunting are all things that are more fun and rewarding when I work hard at making them so. Not many other things are worth doing.
consider scotch.0 -
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quote:Originally posted by He Dog
quote:nothing worth doing ever is.
Bull! That is one of those toss off phrases with no meaning whatever. consider beer.
Your lizard escape again?
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...hope it works out for ya'll...luck...[;)] 
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if she keeps leaving and coming back time to cut your losses and sever the relationship. Chances are its going to end anyway, why prolong the enevitable 0 -
Cubs - work for the best (counseling), but prepare for the worst. Do what dcloco suggested. I truly hope it works out for you, but I also can draw on my own experience and that of others when I say above all else protect yourself . . . my first ex taught me that the hard (very hard) way in somewhat analagous circumstances. If I'd listened to my lawyer instead of the ex, I would be a far happier camper today. Next to marrying her in the first place, the biggest mistake of my life was in taking her back. 0 -
Forget about consuling and work it out between the both of you. Only you and her can work it out ...no strangers involved at all. Hope all is well and best of luck, oyu can look forward to years of happiness like me 28 years this year and a lot of fights and BS but still there.
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quote:Originally posted by dano
quote:Originally posted by SXSMAN
May you both be smiling in the morning .
Best to you cubs and the days ahead .
SxS
Hey SXSMAN....dat you in the pic?
For some reason, I thought you to be bigger....and more masculine looking. [:D]
That's me 60lbs ago. I was 5'10" 160lbs when we got married. Now at 6' 220lbs.0 -
quote:Originally posted by cubslovers
quote:Originally posted by dano
quote:Originally posted by SXSMAN
May you both be smiling in the morning .
Best to you cubs and the days ahead .
SxS
Hey SXSMAN....dat you in the pic?
For some reason, I thought you to be bigger....and more masculine looking. [:D]
That's me 60lbs ago. I was 5'10" 160lbs when we got married. Now at 6' 220lbs.
Ahhhhh!! maybe skip the counseling and join a gym!!!!!!
I unfortunatly know the feeling!!!!0 -
quote:Originally posted by gearheaddad
quote:Originally posted by cubslovers
quote:Originally posted by dano
quote:Originally posted by SXSMAN
May you both be smiling in the morning .
Best to you cubs and the days ahead .
SxS
Hey SXSMAN....dat you in the pic?
For some reason, I thought you to be bigger....and more masculine looking. [:D]
That's me 60lbs ago. I was 5'10" 160lbs when we got married. Now at 6' 220lbs.
Ahhhhh!! maybe skip the counseling and join a gym!!!!!!
I unfortunatly know the feeling!!!!
Ha, I'm not really overweight. I'm really stocky, just have an extra 10lbs in beergut. I play in basketball and softball leagues, and am a regular at the gym.0 -
like others said try and work it out. But I have seen way to many people try to fix it by having a kid, taking breaks. It ends up just being a mess. If you tried to work it out and just isnt going, you need to cut your losses and protect your self. Remember you only live once 0
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