What would you do if an older person hit on your..
Lets just say you were the parent of a SIXTEEN yr old girl. She is VERY pretty and comes around your business from time to time. Everyone kids a little about your "hot" daughter....but you are very clear that she is VERY off limits. Since the younger guys range from 19 to 26 at the store there is bound to be a bit of flirting and playing around when she comes around.
Here comes the kicker....
What if you found out that one of the guys had actually texted your daughter......trying to get her to SNEAK OUT from a friend's house and had promised things like drinking and maybe other things.
I want to say a teeny bit of this problem is the wilder nature of the little angel I am blessed with and I am CLEARLY trying to handle all that comes with raising a head-strong girl in today's world.
BUT.... The young man who is old enough to know better I think is more to blame for this wrong doing and is due a huge WAKE-UP. OR.... at least a small explination of just what can and will happen to him if he doesn't realize exactly how wrong what he tried was and realizes that breathing in and out is a gift from me from this day foreward and if he chooses to he can refuse this gift and call my daughter again. The choice is his.
Here comes the kicker....
What if you found out that one of the guys had actually texted your daughter......trying to get her to SNEAK OUT from a friend's house and had promised things like drinking and maybe other things.
I want to say a teeny bit of this problem is the wilder nature of the little angel I am blessed with and I am CLEARLY trying to handle all that comes with raising a head-strong girl in today's world.
BUT.... The young man who is old enough to know better I think is more to blame for this wrong doing and is due a huge WAKE-UP. OR.... at least a small explination of just what can and will happen to him if he doesn't realize exactly how wrong what he tried was and realizes that breathing in and out is a gift from me from this day foreward and if he chooses to he can refuse this gift and call my daughter again. The choice is his.
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Iv got two beuitful girls myself ones 7yr and the others 12yr dont have to worrie as much now as i will have to later but hey Im starting all the young guys off right I just let them know I have a house full of guns and im not past going back to the pen [}:)][}:)][}:)][:D] 0 -
All I get these days is..."buy me this...buy me that"...and an occational huff or roll of the eyes.
Feeling your pain, sister.....
Those are usually followed in my house by the old "I hate you! You're ruining my life!!! You're the worse mom in the world!..." then the SLAM of the bedroom door...
Followed a short time later by the, "I'm sorry, Mommy. I didn't mean it..."0 -
blame is evenly divided,..as it always is. A 16yr old with a BMW[?]Hmmmmmm can't see why she'd think the rules don't apply to her. Maybe 6mos without it might jumpstart a better thought process
she gave the number to him,..her bad choice led to his bad choice,...a lesson for both to learn.0 -
quote:Originally posted by stevenrayspeck
quote:Originally posted by dongizmo
How old is the guy that texted her? is he 19 or 26? A 19 yo kid that is working is a gunshop? sounds like he has his head on a little straight, ya, the texting/communication was a little sneaky (keeping in mind he is the 19 yo) but a pretty girls smile will make a young man do some might stupid things, and 19 /16 is not much of a age gap.
I would do what I did with my daughter, tell him you know what is going on, give him a firm handshake, pull him close and wisper in his ear:
"If you make my daughter cry, I will make your momma cry when she see's what I have done to you"
Turn around and walk away, and don't say another word about it.
Don
I have to admit LF, Me being a 20 year old guy myself, If was working for you and your daughter came up to me with her number. I would be REALY tempted to call that number, But i wouldn't because i know better.
But thats what seperates me from the other guys i know. Most of the guys i know wouldn't care what your wishes are, They'd take any chance they could get to get into your daughter's pants[:0]
BTW, Thats a realy good looking daughter you've got LF, I bet she looks just like her mother[;)]
If she told ME not to hang around with her daughter, id be LONG GONE. I dont want trouble. Never have, and i REALLY dont with someone that works at a gun shop!!
Walk her through the County Jail or something.. Who knows. I know people at school that were stupid as all could be.. Ended up sitting in jail over the weekend, WHOLE new kid.
I must be blessed to see that those kind of things are stupid, and ill get you in trouble.. or maybe its just dad has learned me that.. Dunno. Im not PERFECT, but I know better than to do stuff I know will get me / other people in trouble.
Beautiful girl indeed. just needs to learn.0 -
What would your mother do in this case? She is a beautiful female that needs her mother's guidiance not orders.Hope everything in life work out for the best.I'll bet you spoil her[:D] 0 -
Under the law, she is a child and he is an adult...I'd tell him in no uncertain that my daughter is off limits. IF he is foolish and immature enough to chase after 16 year old girls, he deserves to loose his job and deal with the police if he follows though with chasing your daughter around. 0
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