Mrs juju is still fighting
Been about 3 years I guess since I posted. Last time I mentioned that my wifes cancer had come back with a vengeance and that she would need 18 chemo treatments. Seems that was optimistic. She just completed here 47th chemo and it looks like they will continue for the rest of her life. Every 3 weeks.
The cancer spread to her brain and she has endured 15 whole brain radiation treatments (this was 2 years ago) which has impacted her short term memory and ability to perform simple tasks like cooking or using a manual wheelchair. She cant grasp the concept of how to turn them. About 9 months ago 3 new brain tumors were discovered and they did targeted radiation on those. It stopped the growth but didnt resolve them. Those tumors are located in the portion of her brain that controls motor function and balance. As a result she cant stand without assistance or even walk without using a walker and even then she falls frequently. In addition she will have to goto the bathroom urgently with very little warning.
Getting her to eat is a chore and going out to eat is out of the question due to her shaky motor skills and bathroom issues.
We tried to get her in a few clinical trials but have been unsuccessful so far.
The reason I posted all this besides wanting to give an update is that I am now on a fixed income (SS) and she is on disability (of course) and I would
like to be able to take here a few places within a couple house drive from where we live in California. Such as Grand canyon, the ocean, where we used to live in San Francisco, Monterrey and so forth. It is impossible to do so as is well simply because I cant afford both the gas and the hotel (gas is 4 and change a gallon here) and the cost of eating out. Not to mention that when she needs a restroom she needs one within a few minutes.
I have never been one to ask for handouts or help but I really dont know what else to do so I started a gofundme to try and get enough funds to get a small tow able travel trailer (one that my 2007 truck can pull) which would enable us to travel while still being near a restroom all the time.
I have not posted this gofundme on any boards, FB or anywhere yet. I wanted the opinions of the people here because I know if this place is anything like it was when I was a regular here you guys and gals will speak your minds and give an unbiased opinion/view. And thats what I need.
I am hesitant to post it anywhere because it just seems trivial compared to what other folks need funds for and I know that we are not alone in this boat.
I dont have much family to run it by so I am asking y'all if I am being selfish, should I do it, would I be taking money potentially away from someone who could use it more, am I stupid for even considering it. Fuck, I just dont know. Believe me when I say it. I am very conflicted about doing this or not.
So if you would, please leave your thoughts about it here. And be honest. I wont take anything negative the wrong way, I need honest opinions not sympathy or coddling.
You really cant understand how difficult it is for me to even admit that I am considering this route. Much less in asking for folks I dont know to weigh in on the idea.
Finally, dont ask for the gofundme account because I wont give it. Not here or in email or PM's. This thread is for me to get some feedback and to help me make a decision. If after yall weigh in and I have a chance to read and absorb them I decide to go forward I will let you know at that time.
As usual thanks
juju(stressed, conflicted and scared)
The cancer spread to her brain and she has endured 15 whole brain radiation treatments (this was 2 years ago) which has impacted her short term memory and ability to perform simple tasks like cooking or using a manual wheelchair. She cant grasp the concept of how to turn them. About 9 months ago 3 new brain tumors were discovered and they did targeted radiation on those. It stopped the growth but didnt resolve them. Those tumors are located in the portion of her brain that controls motor function and balance. As a result she cant stand without assistance or even walk without using a walker and even then she falls frequently. In addition she will have to goto the bathroom urgently with very little warning.
Getting her to eat is a chore and going out to eat is out of the question due to her shaky motor skills and bathroom issues.
We tried to get her in a few clinical trials but have been unsuccessful so far.
The reason I posted all this besides wanting to give an update is that I am now on a fixed income (SS) and she is on disability (of course) and I would
like to be able to take here a few places within a couple house drive from where we live in California. Such as Grand canyon, the ocean, where we used to live in San Francisco, Monterrey and so forth. It is impossible to do so as is well simply because I cant afford both the gas and the hotel (gas is 4 and change a gallon here) and the cost of eating out. Not to mention that when she needs a restroom she needs one within a few minutes.
I have never been one to ask for handouts or help but I really dont know what else to do so I started a gofundme to try and get enough funds to get a small tow able travel trailer (one that my 2007 truck can pull) which would enable us to travel while still being near a restroom all the time.
I have not posted this gofundme on any boards, FB or anywhere yet. I wanted the opinions of the people here because I know if this place is anything like it was when I was a regular here you guys and gals will speak your minds and give an unbiased opinion/view. And thats what I need.
I am hesitant to post it anywhere because it just seems trivial compared to what other folks need funds for and I know that we are not alone in this boat.
I dont have much family to run it by so I am asking y'all if I am being selfish, should I do it, would I be taking money potentially away from someone who could use it more, am I stupid for even considering it. Fuck, I just dont know. Believe me when I say it. I am very conflicted about doing this or not.
So if you would, please leave your thoughts about it here. And be honest. I wont take anything negative the wrong way, I need honest opinions not sympathy or coddling.
You really cant understand how difficult it is for me to even admit that I am considering this route. Much less in asking for folks I dont know to weigh in on the idea.
Finally, dont ask for the gofundme account because I wont give it. Not here or in email or PM's. This thread is for me to get some feedback and to help me make a decision. If after yall weigh in and I have a chance to read and absorb them I decide to go forward I will let you know at that time.
As usual thanks
juju(stressed, conflicted and scared)
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ChrisStreett wrote:The requested link has been posted.
Thank you.
been there...did what I could today.0 -
...looks like Juju is off to a good start. 0 -
juju get me your mailing address and I will send you a check for $100. I am Luddite I don't trust this credit card on the internet stuff. 0 -
Here is a link to donate at. It's fast, safe, And do I really have to say it's for a good cause????
https://www.gofundme.com/enable-my-cancer-stricken-wife-and-i-to-travel
let's just consider a donation there as your yearly dues for the Gunbroker Forums.
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Please post go fund me link 0 -
It's in the post directly above yours.............roswellnative wrote:Please post go fund me link0 -
"The man that originated the gun forum giveaway".
DAMN STRAIGHT!!
Juju gave away more guns than many (myself included) have in their entire collection.
If he'd been less generous, he could likely buy an RV dealership!
Posers have come and gone over the years (some have stayed), but Juju is 1 in a million.
I think we'll never see his like again.
I'll be visiting your GFM Juju.
As others have written, great to see you posting again but heartsick that it's under these circumstances.
Godspeed to you and your better half.
Prayers sent0
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