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GOD! I love being happily married!

zipperzap
... just too old to go through all this foolishness again!

Lifted from another forum.



Ok, first off, I found out about 3 weeks ago that my girlfriend(living together 3 years, I know that was my first mistake) has been hanging out with her ex boyfriend. Now the way I found out was from her cousin(smoking hot, fake cans) which had just found out that her bofriend cheated on her with her friend. She thought I should know because of her other friends knowing about her situation and not telling her.

So I worded everything right to not get her cousin(lets call her Beth) busted (said I heard it from someone else). So the truth comes out and my GF says that she was just hanging out and nothing else happened, which I think is BS.

Well, my GF is out of town and so is Beth's BF. We both think that our partners are F'ed up. Beth now wants me to go to a strip club with her tomorrow night.

What should I do? Would that be considered cheating?

Hoping there might be some older guys who have been through something like this to give me advice.


My advice would be to run away ... as fast as possible!
[:D]
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  • alledan
    I would tell him to go to the event and don't worry about it. looks like his relationship is way far to gone.
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  • sig232
    I agree with your title! I love being happily married!

    The drama of dating and early relationships would be too much to deal with at my age! Its a whole different world out there today folks!
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  • spanielsells
    Yep, I agree. I love being happily married.

    The wife knows that I have female friends. The wife knows that she is welcome to either go or not when I go out with friends.

    The wife has male friends. I know that I am welcome to either go or not when she goes out with friends.

    It isn't a big deal when you trust the person you're married to.
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  • SCorvers
    Marriage is way overated.
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  • dakotashooter2
    quote:What should I do? Would that be considered cheating?

    Go ahead. "Your JUST friends". After all isn't "what is good for the goose is good for the gander"? Ooops thats right women don't see it that way.
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  • agman1999
    He should go to the club, have his way with her in the parking lot, then get the hell away from all of them!
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  • 11b6r
    Advice? RUN! If your legs are broken, CRAWL! That way lies doom, death, and destruction. Would going to the strip club be cheating? No- but what he darned well knows comes after the club WILL be!!! He needs to learn the 3 rules of survival for single men: 1. never play cards with anyone named after a major city. 2. Never eat at any place named Mom's (unless the only alternative is named EATS) 3. never lay down with a woman that has more troubles than you do.[:p]
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  • Colt Super
    I too, loved being married, when it was good.

    On the other hand - disregarding my Children - none of it was really worth the effort.

    Doug
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  • zipperzap
    I guess you found the wrong lady/didn't bail when the bailing was
    good! Sorry to hear it. It happens, I suppose.
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  • oldgunner
    I tried it twice, and I mean I really tried it..sixteen years the first time, seventeen the second. The first gave me some fine kids who have done well and brought me pride. Unfortunately, I didn't do much for her..The second taught me humility. I found out no matter how good I was or how hard I tried, I wasn't worth the ground she walked on, so I peed on it and left...
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  • trc313
    quote:Originally posted by agman1999
    He should go to the club, have his way with her in the parking lot, then get the hell away from all of them!

    +1

    Women nowadays are alot more wild and out of control than back in the day
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  • strokn47265
    Sounds like she wants to have a few drinks and maybe you strip her[:D][:D][:D] I'd be tuckn' other than dollars[:D]
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  • 300Win_Mag
    I would be running to the nearest WalGreens for a box of prophylactics and meeting up with this chick's cousin. Enjoy life while you can. [:D]
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  • William81
    If your current relationship is not already totally screwed up, this has the potential to push it over the cliff.
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  • akfanatik
    get rid of the chick thats foolin around and hang out with beth
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  • D1
    What's the last command heard when the panties hit the floor? READY! MOUNT!
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  • Grasshopper
    IF you have a "good woman" keep out of trouble, strip club drinks, ect, ect means hanky sticky and the other partners find out. End of everything,,sooo I would bang Beth till dawn,,,,and then again...
    My wife is understanding, she knows I have female friends, MANY of the wives, girlfriends[:D] of fellow G.B. members,[:p][:o)] so its ok if its ok with her...nambu
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  • Locust Fork
    Any person who dates a girl that would even go IN a strip club is getting what they deserve.
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  • Grasshopper
    Any person who dates a girl that would even go IN a strip club is getting what they deserve.
    YEA, THATS WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT......[:o)] nambu
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  • TripleX
    Grab it while you can, as often as you can, and with as many as you can. And if you can make money doing it, go for it.
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  • 300Win_Mag
    quote:Originally posted by TripleX
    Grab it while you can, as often as you can, and with as many as you can. And if you can make money doing it, go for it.


    AMEN!
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  • JackBwr
    quote:Originally posted by trc313
    quote:Originally posted by agman1999
    He should go to the club, have his way with her in the parking lot, then get the hell away from all of them!

    +1

    Women nowadays are alot more wild and out of control than back in the day



    Thank MTV and the feminist movement for all the BS. [xx(]
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