It's all circling the drain
and they're no saving it I believe.
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Post some pictures, you know, the ones you promised no one else would see[}:)][:D][:D]
Don0 -
I disposed of those pictures out of anger. Correct me if I'm wrong, but when the other half says out of no where that you can sleep around with other women, its a good indication that things are, for the most part, over and unfixable. That's just my brief glimmer of wisdom for the night. 0 -
quote:Originally posted by catpealer111
I disposed of those pictures out of anger. Correct me if I'm wrong, but when the other half says out of no where that you can sleep around with other women, its a good indication that things are, for the most part, over and unfixable. That's just my brief glimmer of wisdom for the night.
From experience: I can say you could be right...and start covering
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Sorry catpealer.[:(]
But, "You can go ahead and sleep with other women" usually means "because I'm already sleeping around with other men."[V]
Cut your losses and get out while you still can, before kids. Wish it could have worked out for y'all but IMO you have just been avoiding the inevitable for the last year or so. You've not posted anything this last year that showed signs of a healthy relationship.
There are others out there that won't put you through any of the crap she's put you through. The pain will go away, you'll move on, find another girl and look back one day and think to yourself, why did I put up with that crap for so long.
Trust me, been there before.
Sorry again.[:(]
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quote:Originally posted by jbw1776
But, "You can go ahead and sleep with other women" usually means "because I'm already sleeping around with other men."[V]
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Been there done that. Sorry to hear about it anyway. You will be better off in the long run.0 -
A new day will dawn. 0 -
Sorry man.
After my divorce I was told to expect to spend as much time getting over it as I had been in the relationship. Prediction wasn't that far off (I spent about 5 years getting over a 7 year relationship.) During that period I was mostly useless as a partner prospect (too much baggage), but that didn't stop me from having a little fun.
It's a hard place to be.0 -
I confronted her on all of this and she's now acting all concerned. I'm never going to figure this woman out. 0 -
quote:Originally posted by catpealer111
I confronted her on all of this and she's now acting all concerned. I'm never going to figure this woman out.
Likely concerned for herself. Not you. Been there, done that. Time to move on. Don't delay the inevitable. You'll just waste more time.0 -
So, how do you go through with a divorce when there's 600 miles between you? 0 -
quote:Originally posted by catpealer111
I confronted her on all of this and she's now acting all concerned. I'm never going to figure this woman out.
Perhaps she is concerned her gravy train will dry up?
Contact a lawyer in you state of residence, send him/her money, get it done.
Don0 -
Damn tough, man.
I've already posted my pearls of wisdom concerning divorce.
I've been through it twice.
The most important thing I learned was that when you get angry (or show anger), they win. The pain will fade, but at least in my experience, the anger burns for a long time. Let that go and work on keeping your self safe and sane.
If ya wanna talk, email me.
-Andy0 -
Been there done that.
I tried to hang on and save things when all the signs indicated it was over. I put myself through a lot of needless agony thinking things would get better or that she would change. She finally filed for divorce and when it was over I was actually releaved. When you are in the thick of it, it seems the darkest. But it does get better.
I am now married to a wonderful woman who is actually sane!0 -
quote:Originally posted by dongizmo
quote:Originally posted by catpealer111
I confronted her on all of this and she's now acting all concerned. I'm never going to figure this woman out.
Perhaps she is concerned her gravy train will dry up?
Contact a lawyer in you state of residence, send him/her money, get it done.
Don
Good luck. Sounds as if you hate to concede to defeat and give up. It is a good quality. I hate to say divorce is the solution, but if it is inevitable, there is no glory in tearing yourself up trying to save what cannot be saved. Sometimes cutting off the losses is better.
While I've never had to go through a divorce, I have learned in other experiences that if a person waits too long and tries too hard to save the situation, you can eventually give the other party a reason to portray herself as the victim. Eventually you can give her a reason to divorce you. Sure she might say "it's OK to see others." but how is that going to look in court if you did commit the deed?
Don't give her a reason to divorce you. It sounds to be a bad situation and there is probably no good way out of it, but ask yourself "Is she looking for that mistake by you?" If so, then just get it over with.0 -
quote:Originally posted by bigtire
...I am now married to a wonderful woman who is actually sane!
Oh, so YOU got the one.
Good job!0 -
[V] Sorry to hear that, Couple of the guys I've worked with have gone through a "D" they went to the library and looked up all the forms and got them from somewhere maybe the court house? and done the "D" themselves. 100 bucks, but if there is going to be confrontation get a lawyer and get one before she does.
Damn That just sucks Freaking Women Anyway[V]0 -
Getting rid of a bad woman is Like taking x-lax, you ll feel better in the morning.[:D]
and their are a LOT of women out their, who knows you might get a decent one the next time.[:0]0 -
Hey Cat maybe that was the easy way out for her but I would straight out ask her if it's over. I also have been there done that but now I have the nicest woman I have ever met........and remember my old saying "I would rather be alone than in bad company"...Bull 0 -
quote:Originally posted by bull300wsm
Hey Cat maybe that was the easy way out for her but I would straight out ask her if it's over. I also have been there done that but now I have the nicest woman I have ever met........and remember my old saying "I would rather be alone than in bad company"...Bull
Asking will do no good..thy will lie through their teeth, and then
stab you when you least expect it. That was my experience anyway.0 -
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