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  • dheffley
    Only he knows the truth. It's up to you as to what to do.
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  • Jacob2008
    guess he should log out next time [;)]

    sell him the dang gun!
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  • duckhunter
    Have had several of these over the years. As you said, "Buyer remorse" Strong emotion.
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  • 1911a1-fan
    i assume he won the auction, if so i would reply nicely and let him know you have a fee to pay, and now you have to re list it, and wait even longer to make the sale
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  • Warbirds
    It is not worth your headache to wreck the guys' feedback, and risk having him do the same. Relist it, and consider yourself lucky that you hadn't already shipped it and were looking at a much larger mess.
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  • Marc1301
    quote:Originally posted by Flying Clay Disk
    Sounds to me like the wif-ey said no-ey way-ey unless-ey you like the garage-ey.

    +1
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  • GuvamintCheese
    So now you have to relist it and have a cloud of doubt over it for the next potential buyer. Its BS!
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  • needmyguns
    Originally posted by Flying Clay Disk
    Sounds to me like the wif-ey said no-ey way-ey unless-ey you like the garage-ey.
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    SOUNDS ABOUT THE WAY IT IS I SURE GOT A ARS CHEWING FROM THE WIFE,,BUT HEY IF I BID I PAY..
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  • tomahawk
    if he got outbid he's off the hook, if he was high bidder he bought it imho[;)][:D] don't want it don't bid.
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  • youngsparkey
    Try contacting the next lower bidder if thats a price you are ok with.
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  • spryor
    Yeah, tough call. This person's feedback currently is:

    A+(1)
    GunBroker.com member since 11/30/2007

    He was the only bidder..
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  • tobefree
    This really too ez..... Tell him he needs to collect from his freaking guest and to have a nice day!!!
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  • Spider7115
    I don't buy it. WHY would this person bid on a gun in his name and HOW did he know his host's password?
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  • spryor
    quote:Originally posted by Spider7115
    I don't buy it. WHY would this person bid on a gun in his name and HOW did he know his host's password?
    My thoughts also.

    I told the guy that he needs to better guard his account, and sent him an invoice..
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  • dbarale
    If there is no other bidder just ask him to cover the re-listing fees. I think it would be fair.
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  • LOKO383
    quote:Originally posted by tobefree
    This really too ez..... Tell him he needs to collect from his freaking guest and to have a nice day!!!
    +1 you bid..you buy...no way he knew the guys password..and all..he should have signed off...Loko
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  • spryor
    Well, his reply to my invoice was:

    "I apologize for the misrepresentation, but I had no reason to believe this guy was using my account. He is currently out of work, and can not afford to buy anything. Please accept my apology and know that I have since locked up my computer to avoid future issues.

    Thank you."


    I wrote back that if he'd send us a little ($10.?) to cover the fees we'd call it even.<shrug>
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  • dcinffxva
    quote:Originally posted by cartod
    So now you have to relist it and have a cloud of doubt over it for the next potential buyer. Its BS!


    Was the bid for $400,000 by chance ? [:D]
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  • Wolf.
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    Spryor,

    I agree with the guy that told you to just let it go. He's either a wimp or he's telling the truth. Either way, there's nothing to be gained on your part by pushing the issue and having to live with any bad karma created by doing so. It just isn't worth the grief/stress either to yourself or to him for you to hound him about it.

    GB may allow you to relist the gun without charge. Even if they don't, just let it go and relist your gun.

    Don't let stuff like this ruffle you. Cancel your invoice to him and move on.
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  • spryor
    Oh, i totally agree, I'll not hound the guy. No big deal really, i just don't like the feeling of someone thinking i buy what appears to be total malarcy(sp?).
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  • hk-91
    i hate it when people lie to me also. just pisses me off. like the guy i won a 600.00 dollar scope from for .26 cents. told me he sold it in the store. ya right. i would have let him off the hook if he had just been honest with me and told me hey i dont want to sell the scope for that amount. i wouldnt have blammed him one bit. give him a f feed back. i hate it when people say its not worth leaving bad feedback. how the hell are we sapose to know what kinda people are bidding on or selling stuff in every one give a good feedback even with bad service.
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  • GuvamintCheese
    quote:Originally posted by dcinffxva
    quote:Originally posted by cartod
    So now you have to relist it and have a cloud of doubt over it for the next potential buyer. Its BS!


    Was the bid for $400,000 by chance ? [:D]
    It was 450k.
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  • BlueTic
    New buyers need to learn the rules the hard way. Bid was placed. How/why is not your problem. Give the F and you don't have to pay to relist or worry about his response..
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  • bhale187
    On another auction site I once bid on a VHS tape thinking it was a DVD (it was seconds from slosing and I read through to fast). I sent the seller a message asking if I could pay his listing fees, and explained my mistake. He asked that I pay double the listing fee to pay for relist and I agreed.
    I think that is a more than reasonable compromise. If he does not agree to that, give him the negative feedback and move on.
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  • spryor
    I guess that's what I'll end up doing. I gave him the option of covering the fees and he declined, saying:

    "I'm truly sorry, but I can't pay for nothing. Besides, the re-listing fee would at least be covered by whomever would purchase it when it is re-listed. I know this is probably an insult, but I'll give you $10 for the knife and $10 for shipping if you want and if you take PayPal (my wife would probably throw a fit about even $20 for a knife). My wife may be able to give it to her father for Christmas (I don't know if he's in to custom knives or not). I just have no interest in custom knives, and no real use for one (except maybe as a gift).

    If this is not satisfactory and you have to leave me a negative feedback, then I understand."
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  • Horse Plains Drifter
    quote:If this is not satisfactory and you have to leave me a negative feedback, then I understand."


    I'd oblige the guy. Drop the F bomb on his feed back and relist.
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  • p3skyking
    To get credit for the selling fees (yes, you can do that) you have to leave him negative feedback. Then simply relist and put a blurb that the previous high bidder had other obligations.

    ADDENDUM; Most of the boys here don't know about this because they don't sell anything, but here's how you get credit for your auction:

    http://www.gunbroker.com/User/NonPayingBidderOverview.asp
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  • Spider7115
    I think you have the right to post an "F" for non-payment and also the moral obligation to let other potential sellers know what type of buyer they're dealing with.
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  • frog21
    Hopefully the buyer and seller can work it out.If that was the only bid,I'd relist and just charge whatever your out.
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  • Marc1301
    quote:Originally posted by spryor
    I guess that's what I'll end up doing. I gave him the option of covering the fees and he declined, saying:

    "I'm truly sorry, but I can't pay for nothing. Besides, the re-listing fee would at least be covered by whomever would purchase it when it is re-listed. I know this is probably an insult, but I'll give you $10 for the knife and $10 for shipping if you want and if you take PayPal (my wife would probably throw a fit about even $20 for a knife). My wife may be able to give it to her father for Christmas (I don't know if he's in to custom knives or not). I just have no interest in custom knives, and no real use for one (except maybe as a gift).

    If this is not satisfactory and you have to leave me a negative feedback, then I understand."




    I'd give him the F, so others know at this point.
    I also think the "loser" was actually him, and he got caught by the wife. She told him he is dead unless he gets out of the purchase.
    God, am I glad I don't have to live that way!
    Other sellers deserve to know what this guy did though, IMHO![;)]
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