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gay cop told to "tone down his gayness" (update)

buschmaster
what was he doing if he was told to "tone down his gayness"? :lol: lolomg :lol: this is the stuff comedies are made of...
CLAYTON, Mo. ? A St. Louis County police sergeant has testified that he was told to ?tone down his gayness? to secure a promotion to lieutenant.

Keith Wildhaber testified at trial Tuesday that former St. Louis County Police Board of Commissioners member John Saracino issued the guidance in 2014.

The St. Louis Post-Dispatch reports that Wildhaber says the remark made him feel like he had ?been punched in the gut.? He testified that he thought he would be evaluated for the position based on his body of work, ?not the fact that I was gay.?
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https://fox2now.com/2019/10/23/st-louis-county-police-sergeant-testifies-he-was-told-to-tone-down-gayness/

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  • spasmcreek
    he must have put it on display so he could file a complaint
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  • jimdeere
    That?s the guy from Reno 911.
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  • montanajoe
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    He'll be retireing on a nice settlement,,,
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  • Sam06
    montanajoe wrote:
    He'll be retireing on a nice settlement,,,

    Unfortunately that is probably true.

    And that is a sad statement on our society.

    I liked it better when they were in the closet. :mrgreen:
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  • GilWilson1
    I couldn't care less about what someone does with their pecker in the privacy of their own home with consenting adult(s). I would MUCH rather not know.

    The whole problem with the loud portion of the alphabet community is that they seem to think everyone has to celebrate their personal sexuality choices.

    I don't think they should be harassed but I think they should be as private about their sexuality as most heterosexual couples are.
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  • Sam06
    GilWilson1 wrote:
    I couldn't care less about what someone does with their pecker in the privacy of their own home with consenting adult(s). I would MUCH rather not know.

    The whole problem with the loud portion of the alphabet community is that they seem to think everyone has to celebrate their personal sexuality choices.

    I don't think they should be harassed but I think they should be as private about their sexuality as most heterosexual couples are.

    Well said

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  • bambihunter
    GilWilson1 wrote:
    I couldn't care less about what someone does with their pecker in the privacy of their own home with consenting adult(s). I would MUCH rather not know.

    The whole problem with the loud portion of the alphabet community is that they seem to think everyone has to celebrate their personal sexuality choices.

    I don't think they should be harassed but I think they should be as private about their sexuality as most heterosexual couples are.

    That's pretty much my sentiments as well. On another note, I have never understood the 'need' to act that way. I mean, there have been a lot of well known gays that it wasn't known for many, many years. Rock Hudson comes to mind.
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  • dunbarboyz
    They can do what ever blows their skirt up just leave others out of it.
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  • Hessian
    This my pistol, this is my gun. This one's for shooten and this one's for fun. :)
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  • shilowar
    bambihunter wrote:
    GilWilson1 wrote:
    I couldn't care less about what someone does with their pecker in the privacy of their own home with consenting adult(s). I would MUCH rather not know.

    The whole problem with the loud portion of the alphabet community is that they seem to think everyone has to celebrate their personal sexuality choices.

    I don't think they should be harassed but I think they should be as private about their sexuality as most heterosexual couples are.

    That's pretty much my sentiments as well. On another note, I have never understood the 'need' to act that way. I mean, there have been a lot of well known gays that it wasn't known for many, many years. Rock Hudson comes to mind.


    Agreed, however from their perspective i imagine they'd likely argue that heterosexual men on the job demonstrate their straightness just as provocatively. Having worked in this field for 23 years it's a macho dominated straight culture that is likely a harder environment for a gay man to succeed, so any sign of homosexuality is likely to be rebuffed as being provocative. I see it in the females I work around, whether lesbians or straight you can see they feel the need to "man up" and hide their femininity. I don't know what, if anything this guy did, but you're right...get out the checkbook and start adding zeros.
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  • buschmaster
    aaaand on Friday the verdict was...

    https://fox2now.com/2019/10/25/jurors-award-19-million-to-st-louis-county-police-sergeant-in-discrimination-case/

    $19,000,000
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  • buschmaster
    come on, all they had to do was finally give him a promotion and some tickets to the Elton John concert ;)
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  • Sam06
    buschmaster wrote:

    19 million :shock:

    That will buy a lot of panty hose
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  • shilowar
    buschmaster wrote:

    Sure, why should the jury care? most of them are probably on entitlements anyways so here's a chance to stick it to the man.
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  • austin20
    buschmaster wrote:
    WOW
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  • Sam06
    shilowar wrote:
    buschmaster wrote:

    Sure, why should the jury care? most of them are probably on entitlements anyways so here's a chance to stick it to the man.

    +1

    They don't understand it not coming out of the Police budget or from the cops. Its like Corporate taxes you pay them not the company.
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