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  • Sam06
    My Dad is 87 and he has Dementia.

    I visit him for a week every month and when I leave every day I feel like puking. I have never had anything so soul crushing happen to me in my life and that includes having some of my best friends killed or maimed.

    Its better to go before you turn into a eggplant :cry:
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  • mogley98
    Dad would be 85 this year, Mom is still living actually on her third Husband. Lovingly I call her the Black Widow :shock:
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  • Horse Plains Drifter
    My dad would have been 100 earlier this month. DOB Aug. 5 1919 in San Francisco, CA. Passed May 01, 2001 age 81. WWII vet, and great dad.
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  • Brookwood
    Sam06 wrote:
    My Dad is 87 and he has Dementia.

    I visit him for a week every month and when I leave every day I feel like puking. I have never had anything so soul crushing happen to me in my life and that includes having some of my best friends killed or maimed.

    Its better to go before you turn into a eggplant :cry:

    I agree with you 100% on this Sam. My dad died of a heart attack and if it weren't for the paramedics reviving him and taking him to the hospital where he lingered in that eggplant state for 2 weeks...?..He would have never had any other medical issues his whole life. The hospital made out pretty well though. :cry:
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  • ChrisStreett
    I guess you can put me in the ?damn fortunate? category. My mom is gone, as is one of my younger brothers. My dad, he?s 90 and still works 6 days a week. There can only be so many ?tomorrows? though. Trying to make the most of them.
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  • Wulfmann
    My father would have turned 108 on June 9 being born before the Titanic sailed in 1911

    As a gun guy 1911 seems like a good year to be born
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  • KenK/84Bravo
    Brookwood wrote:
    Sam06 wrote:
    My Dad is 87 and he has Dementia.

    I visit him for a week every month and when I leave every day I feel like puking. I have never had anything so soul crushing happen to me in my life and that includes having some of my best friends killed or maimed.

    Its better to go before you turn into a eggplant :cry:

    I agree with you 100% on this Sam. My dad died of a heart attack and if it weren't for the paramedics reviving him and taking him to the hospital where he lingered in that eggplant state for 2 weeks...?..He would have never had any other medical issues his whole life. The hospital made out pretty well though. :cry:



    The only thing that scares me in life, is what my Dad endured the last 10 years of his life.

    Multiple Strokes/Heart attacks. Pretty well gimped up. Could not communicate, although mind was sharp.

    I do not wish to go that route.

    My Dad would be close to 90, if still alive. Passed away about 6-7 years ago.

    32 Year Lifer ABN CSM, WWII, Korea, Vietnam. A tough old bird.

    I miss you every day Dad.
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  • grdad45
    Dad would be 104. Born in 1915, quit school in 8th grade to help his family survive. He went on to become an electrical contractor, and a damned good one.
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  • jimdeere
    My dad would be 119 this October. He died when he was 74. They had me when he was 53 and had my sister when he was 61!
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  • bwct
    My dad would have been 93 this past July. He has been gone 24 years, 2 months, 16 days. My best friend and hunting partner. Also, a pretty good self-taught gunsmith.
    USN UDT.
    Mother will be 90 in January.
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  • BobJudy
    Would have been 111 this October. Farm boy from Ohio. Went to a one room schoolhouse in the middle of farm country. Then he worked for Willys Overland until WW2. Enlisted and was the old guy in the platoon. Did not go ashore on D-day but when the beachhead was pushed inland after a couple of days he went in as a radar operator for a mobile anti-aircraft unit. He told of being issued a Thompson with only one magazine. When he questioned this he was told he could get more on the beach. They meant off the dead and wounded. Made it through the war and opened his own auto parts store. Cancer took him at 89 after he fought it for about a year. Bob
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  • mrmike08075
    My father turns 80 this year - he was born in 1940...

    He has an active retirement taking care of my mom and their dog...

    I spend the night every two weeks - watch the dog and do laundry and some other light chores so he can take a break...

    Mike
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  • pulsarnc
    Pops would be 95 this year. He died at age 54 . WW2 paratroopers in the 82 nd Airbourne.
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  • Smitty500mag
    My Dad would be 90 now.

    He died about 4 years ago from Progressive Supranuclear Palsy (PSP) which is an uncommon brain disorder that affects movement, control of walking and balance, speech, swallowing, vision, mood and behavior, and thinking. The disease results from damage to nerve cells in the brain. Many times it's misdiagnosed as Parkinson's disease or Alzheimer's disease.

    It's a terrible, terrible disease that no one should ever have to endure nor should their family have to see their love ones eventually turn into a vegetable. :cry:

    Mom on the other hand is 89 and sharper than a tack.

    I hope I get hit by a train before ever having to endure that disease.
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  • diver-rig
    My father will be 80 this October, born in 1940. He has Parkinson?s. They retired, from being retired up nort in Minnesota, and living in a condo in ankeny Iowa.

    Visit both mom and dad, though I should go more.
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  • drobs
    Dad would be 87. Killed himself when I was 12.
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  • MIKE WISKEY
    "As a gun guy 1911 seems like a good year to be born"..............yup, mine was born in 1911 also, died dec. 12, 1992 just over 80 (cancer). ww2 vet. I miss him also, when he died it was like I put on a 90 lb. back pack.
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  • Bubba Jr.
    Dad would have been 94 in April. He died Dec 6th 2013 at age 88. He had Alzheimer's that slowly took away his persona. His wife died about 6 months later from a broken heart. They were very close and his illness really took a toll on her.

    I would go see him every week. It was really nice to see his face light up when he saw me. He thought my step sister and I were his only children, as we were the only ones that saw him on a regular basis. I saw him 2 days before he died, and I think he knew the end was near. At that point he was in a wheelchair. As I got ready to leave I bent down to give him a hug, and he shook his head and motioned for me to help him up. I got him up and held him as he shook like a leaf from weakness. We hugged and I gently set him back down. He smiled and said "Bye" those were the last words I heard from him.

    2 days later I held his hand as he was dying and writhing in pain trying to comfort him as much as I could. He looked at me a couple of times, but I didn't detect any recognition. Every time I think about that time, it still makes me tear up, even now. :(
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  • bearman49709
    Dad would be 96 now, died 2011 at age 88. Born December 14 1922. WWII VET.
    He died April 15 two days after their 66 anniversary.

    Mom died February 12 2012, age 87. She had Alzheimer's and was a vegetable the last three years she lived.
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  • hillbille
    dad 103, died at 64, mom would just have turned 98,died at 93, not sure the way the world is going nowdays I want to live that long......
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  • dunbarboyz
    My Dad was born January 1,1931 died October 3,1998. I will be the age he died in two years not looking forward to that. My Mother turned 90 two weeks ago she doesn't know who I am most days.
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  • randomnut
    He would be 66 now. Died June 21, 2012
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  • rufe-snow
    My dad died at 48, in Aug 1959. Smoked 2 packs of Camels a day, for at least 25 years. Don't imagine, it did him any good.

    Was in the 2nd month of basic. Left Fort Dix, to go to the big apple, for the funeral. Then went back to Dix, didn't want to get recycled.
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  • Aztngundoc22
    OK :

    Pops is 20 years older than me !

    I will be 61 on 12/12

    He will be 81 on 12/31

    and : I feel lucky to still have my parents here !!!

    Thanks !!!
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  • mrmike08075
    My father's father passed away while my father was in the service - he was on temporary duty in charge of some prisoner chasers...

    The army moved heaven and earth to get my father home (in the early 60's) even to the point of putting him in the rear seat of a jet attack aircraft pulled off of a training mission but cancer killed him before he could reach the hospital...

    His father was 47 when he died from cancer - I am 48 and should be dead from cancer...

    His father's father died of "consumption" at the age of 43...

    The preceding 3 males in the direct lineage were killed in the service - 2 in the army and one is the light house service...

    My father seems to have escaped the family male curse - if you go back 6-7 generations of one male makes it to 50 except for my father - I might just barely scrape by at pass the half century mark...

    Mike
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  • gearheaddad
    Dad was born in 1931.
    Next month he would have been 88.
    He died in 2005. I miss him every day.
    Korean war vet.
    Red Foreman was based on my Dad!
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  • kimi
    My father would be 113 years old come November 23. My grandfather would be 154 come next April.
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  • kimi
    gearheaddad wrote:
    Dad was born in 1931.
    Next month he would have been 88.
    He died in 2005. I miss him every day.
    Korean war vet.
    Red Foreman was based on my Dad!

    I would have loved to of spent a week with your family back when you were young, Ed!!! That would have been awesome, I'm sure!!!
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  • us55840
    My father was born in 1901. He was 92 when he passed.

    He farmed his whole life ... as oldest he took over the family farm at the age of 14 when his father had a stroke. Had two sisters and 3 brothers and his mom to support. He did graduate from 8th grade at the age of 18. In those years, farm work to priority so not unusual to graduate from 8th grade as late as 21. Many never got that far in school.

    A great, good man; raised a good family and honest as the day is long.

    I miss him every day.
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  • He Dog
    Would be 101 in Oct., Mom would have been 99 in March. They made it to 84 and 89 respectively. Mom was the only one of 4 sisters that did not make 90, and she was just 2 months shy.
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