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  • ChrisStreett
    Good for you both Mike! You made a commitment to yourself to do the trip...and you did it. Try to kick back, enjoy each other and your surroundings. (Oh, yeah, and listen to your nurse?s directions.)
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  • diver-rig
    Have a great time! You definitely deserve it.


    God bless this wonderful season, Makaila, and yourself.

    Enjoy!
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  • mark christian
    It sounds great, Mike...all expect that B12 shot: I am terrified of needles[xx(][xx(][V]!
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  • mrmike08075
    She brough saline and glucose and IV hook up supplies and several vitamin booster syringes - and some other supplies in her medic pack

    She worries and likes to be prepared - despite the fact that so far I have been difficult to kill

    She carries a lot of internal anger and stress and tension - and she needs to talk it out and analyze it and work through it with someone she does not work with...

    That happens to be me - and I actually enjoy being her sounding board and moral compass and wailing wall...

    I feel blessed and honored and lucky that she feels she can share that stuff with me - that she goes to me for advice - we work together as a team to figure things out

    And a big part of it is the physical intimacy - snuggling or sitting in my lap or her using me as a body pillow at night

    And fresh from the shower with no makeup in comfortable sweats or pj's - feeling safe and comfortable and protected and able to be herself

    It works for her - and if I can be the mechanism that allows her to discard stress and angst and to feel better about herself I feel like a super hero or knight in shining armor

    I will spend an hour brushing her hair...

    I enjoy taking care of her - doing the laundry or cooking...

    Mike
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  • Maalox
    Sounds like a great Holiday getaway. Enjoy your trip.
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  • roswellnative
    Man I?m jealous. Sounds like a good place to get away
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  • mrmike08075
    It belonged to her great aunt - who had it built to spec out of a catalog in 1950...

    She never left the island again - ran a small combination package store and bar that offered soups and sandwiches - she would make special box lunches for the servicemen stationed at the coast guard base and in the light house service...

    704 square feet with a wrap around covered porch and a detached 1 1/2 car garage on 1.8 acres with 100 feet of stream front / riparian rights

    A dead end street with 7 other cabins or cottages with a nature preserve on the opposite side of the road

    The garage had radiators in it

    Makaila has me find a general contractor and gave me a budget and told me to upgrade it

    New metal roof - new Anderson windows - new hardwood laminate flooring - new furnace and hot water heater and AC unit - natural gas back up generex system - period bathroom was reconditioned and saved - mid level smaller flat stainless steel kitchen appliances package and a matching stack able washer and dryer...

    Plain but nice kitchen cabinets and counter tops

    Raised house with no basement or crawl space

    Chain link fence and front yard flag pole - ship lathe internals and brick externals including the small fireplace

    2 bedroom (more like 1 1/2)

    New sewer line from house to main in street

    Upright piano - China cabinet - kitchen hutch - spare bedroom has an actual Murphy bed (never seen one before)

    Wood stove for heat - rather ornate and older than the house

    It's cozy and warm and comfortable and quiet and hidden and throwback simple and perfectly serviceable - it's small but works fine -

    Makaila will want to go to lunch or dinner or visit the bookstore or the black dog cafe or see a movie or eat at a diner or bar and grill but mostly she wants to stay inside and do nothing - read or binge watch TV or do crossword puzzles or soduku or calligraphy

    She wants to watch me cook or bake or do chores like laundry or simple projects - there is a greenish Bakelite tube radio that does not work and I have it disassembled - parts diagram from on line - simple multi meter and basic tools

    I replaced to small wires (cloth covered) that looked pretty deteriorated and cleaned off contacts - the station tuning know runs an internal string belt that was broken - easy fix

    One tube does not work - found a place online that carries them and we will order 2 - should work just fine after that

    Now how do you clean Bakelite without ruining it??? Warn water with orange in it???

    Zenith console color TV with radio and turntable

    I replaced the needle and used canned air to clean dust and crap out and used some clock oil in certain places and it works now - had to show Makaila how to adapt from LP's to 45's and how to stack multiple records up for extended play

    The door bell never worked so I have that to take apart and play with

    She seems happy and appears to enjoy watching me tinker occasionally asking a question or wanting to help

    She is binge watching anime (Appleseed) and emailing distant relatives

    I know most of you will think I am lame or crazy but this is a good time for us

    Mike
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  • remingtonoaks
    Sounds like you're having a great time. Good for you
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  • mrmike08075
    Going to take an heirloom beefsteak tomato ( green with yellow stripes) and slice it up - bread it and pan sear it in bacon grease...

    Going to make a few slices of javelina center cut back strap thick slice bacon...

    Going to take some Italian bread remnants and make French toast...

    Split a nectarine - heavy Russian black bread toasted with Swiss butter...

    Small portion sampler made from scraps and remnants and leftovers

    Then back to bed.

    I have been working through a book on the orange free state and I gave Makaila one on the boxer rebellion...


    Venture out for a scenic ride and some sandwiches and back home to relax - in the truck so it gets some exercise

    I am thinking a small roasted chicken or pheasant or ptarmigan for dinner with Lacey cheese and bacon potatoes

    Bottle of DAB or spaten

    TV binge watching curled up together with crossword puzzles

    Mike
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  • mrmike08075
    It's well after midnight and Makaila is dead asleep - half in my lap or curled up against me...

    I need to get up and tend the fire - I need to take a leak - I need to take some meds - and I can use a drink of ice water...

    But she looks so rested and her head is on my chest...

    I will not wake her - I will not disturb the deep happy sleep she has established / achieved

    She smells like peppermint and sugar cookies

    Why spoil the moment - maybe I will fall asleep

    It's quiet here - the fire is pretty noisy

    Feels like happier times gone by . Never to be revisited.

    Mike


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  • shilowar
    I spent the summers of my youth growing up on the bayside of Cape Cod....not quite the same as one of the islands but similar. Fond memories, was sad to see my folks sell their cottage several years ago, but she was a wonderful part of our lives for 25 years. Ole Cape Cod.
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  • mrmike08075
    I had gone to Martha's vineyard on summer breaks as a kid for a few weeks - working in a townie grocery store and later an auxiliary law enforcement officer during peak traffic season

    I also spent similar time on Nantucket were norm had his shop - and you would see Tommy desilva and his vans all the time

    Been a member of the rod and gun club since 1990

    We would spend lots of time at the black dog cafe and would rent scooters

    We preferred the off season - October and November.

    Great bookstore and vintage movie theater

    Good memories.

    Mike
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  • mjrfd99
    Enjoy Mike.
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  • mrmike08075
    This morning we went to an estate sale - a nice sized brick ranch near the islands center - built in the 40's just after WWII

    Same family since built - year round locals and owners invited

    I picked up a genuine Filsons red and black checked jacket with vest style liner intact - it has the clear plastic credentials holder pinned to the back with a permit to take ducks in 1949 - sized 48

    No price tag - was buried in the back of a closet and when I asked they took $20.00 for it

    Makaila found a matching set of salamander earrings and a larger pin - they are company proofed and ser#'d and dated 1939

    Because they were aluminum with gem cut green glass eyes they let her hand have the set (blue velvet hinged box intact) for $30.00

    I don't think they realized what a restricted war time commodity and limited resource aluminum represented in 1939

    Fortuitous finds - talismans of great portent and gravitas

    Mike
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  • spasmcreek
    HAVE A GREAT TIME!!!!!!!!!!! how diff is the mex coke compared to regular USA coke ??? i only use the caffeine FREE coke (med order) and like it better now than regular with HFS
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  • mrmike08075
    The glass bottle Mexican cokes are pure and clean and made cane sugar

    Not only tastes better but you tend to burn the calories up instead of storing it as fat and lard or blubber like a hibernating bear

    Mike
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  • spasmcreek
    THANX..we have a lot of mexs around but have not seen any M cola for sale here...maybe just not in the right spot....harder to keep #'s down now that i can't go like i used to and CF cola is my biggest vice
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  • mrs102
    Wow, Mrmike you can weave a marvelous picture with your words. Did you write professionally?
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