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Dawnie up and left me a couple months ago. Says she wants to stay married, but she "needs space."
Trouble is, she has lied to me so many times, I cannot believe what she is saying now.
I don't need any sympathy. I'm a big boy and have dealt with this before. She'll either come back or she won't. Either way, I survive.
She needs your prayers, please. And I do too.
All is well.
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File for divorce now.. show her you mean business...if she still cares for you she will try to work it out..if not..at least you will get it over with... never..ever.. trust a woman..
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I have heard that before. "I need to move out. I need some space." We had been together for two years.
I was shocked but I said "OK."
But what I should have said was "What's the name of your new boyfriend?"
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Prayers for both you and Dawnie, Dave. Hang in there and keep the faith. Donna and I have been married 40 years and went through a separation for a few months. We reconciled and made it work. I was just being "an ass" , do to working so much and not giving her the attention she needed.
Know that we all think highly of "Both" of you. You wear your heart on your sleeve and your a good man. Much respect, Oakie.
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Nunn, I'm happy to see that Dawnie's info has been removed, I hope that it was by your hand.
Posting that is not something that one would expect from you, especially being in law enforcement.
I have been where you are my friend ... and it sucks but the Only thing that will help the way you are feeling is time and only time.
Please just keep playing the good guy as it is easy to stoop to mud slinging and vindictive behavior. Being the one on moral high ground is difficult but in the end your integrity will still be intact regardless of the outcome.
One more thing from personal experience; If she has moved out to afford herself "space" IT"S OVER so accept it and move forward with integrity and dignity.
You have a hundred shoulders here when you need them.
Bull
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Prayers asked for you David. Been there and done it three times myself.
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All marriage roads have stretches of potholes. A lucky few are smooth asphalt. Some come to a fork, and others to a dead end. You never know which it will be when the journey starts, but you will always know when it ends.
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Nunn, prayers for the both of you and i hope things work out for you.
My gunsmith's wife left him after raising three boys to adult hood. His wife's friends said she should get out and have some fun. Yea Right. After a couple of months she wanted to come back. He told her no way. Last fall after a year or so he married another girl. He is very happy now, even bought a RV and they are going all over the Country. He is a great gunsmith and only does my bluing as I do all my own repairs and polishing. If only I could get him to work on my guns more often. ---------------------------------Ray
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Don't have any words of comfort for you that would make anything better, so I said a prayer for the two of you.
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prayers for you both.
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Sorry to hear it Nunn. She has lied how many times? What else do you need to know?
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I was always told by my great grandfather that you can never trust someone that gets a Brazilian wax.
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Wish you the best, David. As has been stated, keep to the high road. Regardless of the outcome, you will look back without regrets.
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File for divorce now.. show her you mean business...if she still cares for you she will try to work it out..if not..at least you will get it over with... never..ever.. trust a woman..
She asked for 6 months. The lease on her apartment is 6 months. I figure I can give her that long.
If she does as she has done before, she will be dead broke by that time and in danger of being evicted. She just can't handle money. That's why I seized control of our accounts and bill-paying from her.
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She asked for 6 months. The lease on her apartment is 6 months. I figure I can give her that long.
If she does as she has done before, she will be dead broke by that time and in danger of being evicted. She just can't handle money. That's why I seized control of our accounts and bill-paying from her.
She left you and got an apartment and you are going to "give her that much" Sir, the writing is on the wall, that is NOT how marriages work. pull the plug and stop torturing yourself. It'll never be "comfortable" again.
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"That's why I seized control of our accounts and bill-paying from her."
Do you have Power of Attorney over her?
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allen griggs: 30429084053915/comments/30429077238427
"That's why I seized control of our accounts and bill-paying from her."
Do you have Power of Attorney over her?
Only if she were to become disabled or incompetent.
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